[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.girltime.cz\/kazdy-vztah-se-da-zachranit\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.girltime.cz\/kazdy-vztah-se-da-zachranit\/","headline":"Ka\u017ed\u00fd vztah se d\u00e1 zachr\u00e1nit","name":"Ka\u017ed\u00fd vztah se d\u00e1 zachr\u00e1nit","description":"V dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b je velkou vz\u00e1cnost\u00ed, pokud spolu man\u017eelsk\u00e9 p\u00e1ry vydr\u017e\u00ed \u0159\u00e1dku let, t\u00edm p\u0159irozen\u011b je my\u0161leno 20, 30 a v\u00edce let. Jak\u00e9 tajemstv\u00ed stoj\u00ed za t\u00edmto vztahem? Rozhodn\u011b to nebude jen sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed str\u00e1nka, je to toti\u017e mnohem v\u00edce, ne\u017e si mysl\u00edme. Ukr\u00fdv\u00e1 se za t\u00edm tolerance jeden druh\u00e9ho, vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 \u00facta a konec konc\u016f i ... <a title=\"Ka\u017ed\u00fd vztah se d\u00e1 zachr\u00e1nit\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.girltime.cz\/kazdy-vztah-se-da-zachranit\/\" aria-label=\"V\u00edce na Ka\u017ed\u00fd vztah se d\u00e1 zachr\u00e1nit\">\u010c\u00edst d\u00e1l<\/a>","datePublished":"2020-02-06","dateModified":"2023-05-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.girltime.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.girltime.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/75e4d40f94885f01aa9441f03c1e175b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/75e4d40f94885f01aa9441f03c1e175b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"girltime.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/girltime.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a376558_w3567_t1588068971.jpg","url":"https:\/\/girltime.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a376558_w3567_t1588068971.jpg","height":"","width":""},"url":"https:\/\/www.girltime.cz\/kazdy-vztah-se-da-zachranit\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":485,"articleBody":"V dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b je velkou vz\u00e1cnost\u00ed, pokud spolu man\u017eelsk\u00e9 p\u00e1ry vydr\u017e\u00ed \u0159\u00e1dku let, t\u00edm p\u0159irozen\u011b je my\u0161leno 20, 30 a v\u00edce let. Jak\u00e9 tajemstv\u00ed stoj\u00ed za t\u00edmto vztahem? Rozhodn\u011b to nebude jen sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed str\u00e1nka, je to toti\u017e mnohem v\u00edce, ne\u017e si mysl\u00edme. Ukr\u00fdv\u00e1 se za t\u00edm tolerance jeden druh\u00e9ho, vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 \u00facta a konec konc\u016f i kompromis, na kter\u00fd mus\u00edme p\u0159istoupit a to z obou dvou stran. Na\u0161\u00edm \u00fakolem je naj\u00edt stejnou cestu, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1s dovede ke \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9mu c\u00edli. Na\u0161i p\u0159edkov\u00e9 a\u017e na n\u011bjak\u00e9 v\u00fdjimky byli vcelku zvykl\u00ed v\u0161echno rozbit\u00e9 n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem opravit a to se nemuselo jednat jen o vztah. My d\u011bl\u00e1me prav\u00fd opak, n\u011bco se rozbije a v podstat\u011b sou\u010d\u00e1stky jsou tak drah\u00e9, \u017ee nem\u00e1 cenu porouchanou v\u011bc opravovat, ale rovnou ji vyhodit. Stejn\u011b bohu\u017eel postupujeme se vztahy. Kdy\u017e se n\u011bco porouch\u00e1, nem\u00e1me snahu d\u00e1t v\u0161echno do po\u0159\u00e1dku, usm\u00ed\u0159it se a hledat \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed.&#13; &#13; Dlouhodob\u00fd vztah se d\u00e1 zvl\u00e1dnout&#13; Budovat vztah je t\u0159eba od po\u010d\u00e1tku, v pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edch letech se mo\u017en\u00e1 ji\u017e ani ned\u00e1 zachr\u00e1nit. Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku si nedovedeme p\u0159edstavit den bez sebe, jsme \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed a vd\u011b\u010dn\u00ed za ka\u017edou volnou chvilku, kterou spolu tr\u00e1v\u00edme. Pak p\u0159ijdou d\u011bti a \u017eena zde ud\u011bl\u00e1 z\u00e1sadn\u00ed chybu. M\u00edsto toho, aby na prvn\u00ed p\u0159\u00ed\u010dku sv\u00fdch priorit postavila man\u017eela nebo p\u0159\u00edtele, ouvej budou zde d\u011bti. Tady by si v\u0161echny \u017eeny m\u011bly uv\u011bdomit jednu z\u00e1sadn\u00ed a podstatnou v\u011bc. D\u011bti po letech dosp\u011bj\u00ed a p\u016fjdou svoj\u00ed cestou. Budou si budovat sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed \u017eivot, ale rozhodn\u011b bez maminek. M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt sice pro matku velmi bolestiv\u00e9, ale pokud se sna\u017eila cel\u00fd \u017eivot v\u011bnovat sv\u00e9mu man\u017eelovi, v\u00edce, ne\u017e d\u011btem, tak pr\u00e1v\u011b v tomto okam\u017eiku mohou za\u010d\u00edt nov\u00e9 l\u00edb\u00e1nky a nikdy neza\u017eije pocit samoty. &#13; &#13; Ka\u017ed\u00fd mus\u00ed za\u010d\u00edt s\u00e1m u sebe&#13; I v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, je t\u0159eba o vztahu a probl\u00e9mech mluvit, naj\u00edt si chvilku sami pro sebe, kdy probereme, co n\u00e1s tr\u00e1p\u00ed nebo naopak co n\u00e1s pot\u011b\u0161ilo. Kdy\u017e budeme m\u00edt spolu otev\u0159en\u00fd vztah a dostate\u010dnou komunikaci, tak se d\u00e1 mnoh\u00e9mu p\u0159edej\u00edt. Je nesmysl se domn\u00edvat, \u017ee nov\u00fd vztah n\u011bco zlep\u0161\u00ed nebo \u017ee to bude jin\u00e9. Co\u017e v podstat\u011b skute\u010dn\u011b i m\u016f\u017ee, ale ani to nebude trvat v\u011b\u010dn\u011b, pokud pro zdrav\u00fd v\u00fdvoj n\u011bco neud\u011bl\u00e1me sami. Na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, nic nen\u00ed ztraceno a kdo opravdu nechce ztratit svoji \u017eivotn\u00ed l\u00e1sku, tak \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed nalezne.&#13; &#13;                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ka\u017ed\u00fd vztah se d\u00e1 zachr\u00e1nit","item":"https:\/\/www.girltime.cz\/kazdy-vztah-se-da-zachranit\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]